For me, today is Thanksgiving. I realized just how fast this year is moving and it really surprised me. I'm so thankful for those who have been helping me through the past year because for me, it has been rather difficult. I'm so thankful for the friends I have made and the ones I've kept. I am thankful for my parents who didn't give up on me. What are all ya'll thankful for? Even if it's something small, it is still something. I hope all of ya'll have a great Thanksgiving or just a great depending where you are! Spend today with those who are close to you or spend it doing something for someone else. I hope today ya'll can find a reason to smile! Good luck to all of ya'll today and I'll post again soon! Bye!!!
Well before I begin this post, I would like to apologize for not having been on in so long. I really missed blogging, but I needed to handle things at home and school. Now I am back! So let's get started then shall we?
So, this is probably one of my favorite pictures. To me it says: Stop caring what people think, be who ever the hell you want to be! Today I got told this, and I was surprised by how much I actually needed to hear it. You live life the way everyone else wants you to, you gotta live it the way you want to. If that's by changing careers or what you major in at school, then so be it! But don't do something just because that's what everyone wants from you. Here is the harsh reality: I don't care how much you claim not to care what people say about you, because odds are, you do. One of my best friends recently became a not-so-best friend because I found out that she had been lying to me, my friends, and spreading lies and rumors about me. I became caught up in trying to be something else so maybe she would stop and tell people something else. Once I realized what it was doing to me, I dropped her. I don't need to be weighed down by someone who doesn't except me the way I am. The truth is: I am tired of changing for everyone else. I am ready to just, be me. I'm tired of being controlled and told how and when to do something. I don't need help running my life or finding myself. You shouldn't take that kind of crap from anyone either. YOU are in control of YOUR destiny. No one else can control that. So stop acting like their opinion matters and start forming a new one for yourself and what you think about yourself. Grow the way YOU want, become the person YOU want, take the job YOU want. Be YOU. Be ORIGINAL! Because no one will ever be as great as YOU! Now go you amazing, beautiful person, and find what you have been missing! |